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Post by nicolax2 on Mar 4, 2006 7:31:20 GMT -5
Hi Chrissy, what is the deal with all MIL's? I always tell my DH I wish I had a MIL like his!!LOL!! You can NOT spoil a baby, you can't hold it too much, treat it too much or even love it too much! And as for leaving her out when baby arrives is ridiculous! She doesn't even want to be involved in a positive way now, what is her problem? She sounds just like my MIL. I too am very close to all of my family, even my extended family and so is my DH. He even calls all my auntys aunty! MIL hates this, she can't understand why he is so close to them, but hey he has been in my family for over 10 years what does she expect? Also she always makes out as if her kids are really close to her but she has a son 200 miles away with his partner, a daughter she constantly argues with and Rob (DH) gets really fed up with the way she goes on about everything! We had a lot of heated arguments when I was younger (she even ordered me out of MY house once) but now I have just learnt not to let her get to me and I am always polite and civil to her!!LOL!! Don't worry about the way she feels about your baby as long as you and your DH are happy what else matters? Anyway you have friends here who are pleased and excited for you, we can't wait until baby arrives! x x x
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Post by christinam on Mar 4, 2006 11:30:18 GMT -5
nicola thanks! i am glad i am not the only one wih a ridiulous crazy mil! same thing, me and my family are extrememly close and she always pretends they are so close and her other son doesnt even talk to her, but she puts blame on others all the time, she hasnt even seen his childin 4 years not ever! so using my child as her pawn! i will do what i want and remain just as close if not closer to my family and i am not listening to her crap! i am glad you guys are here for me too your all great! my family has been super supportive and dh's family could care less and now it is getting closer and her insecurity is making her act like this, she didnt talk to me at one point for 3 years! i gave in so my dh wouldnt be hurting, and i keep taking her crap! i will do what i want they are my children! thanks for listening and the advice!
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Post by Diane on Mar 4, 2006 14:52:12 GMT -5
Drew - sorry you are so sick. Hopefully she turns so you won't have a c-sec. Nicola and Chrissy - I don't have the best relationship with my MIL but I am sorry yours is even worse than mine. She finally has backed off she hated I BF for a full year with Jacob, so wonder if things will turn ugly when this baby arrives?
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Post by christinam on Mar 5, 2006 12:03:59 GMT -5
goodmorning girls! so i have this bad friggin cold then i wake up with af 4 days eary and severe! can i catch a break! lol.........amazing to be a women! how is everyone else doing? i am going to try to get out later, i want to add some stuff to our registry, my mom started to plan my shower and our registry is getting alot removed it is very cool!
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Post by aalissa on Mar 6, 2006 13:19:56 GMT -5
well sorry to say GIRLS" my computer is very sick! I can't even get into my desktop! So it will be WHO EVER knows long till I getg online........ ******sigh***** I have missed all of you and it has only been 3 days...... I will try to get over to the shop to use the computer once and awhile "K"...... thats where I am at my moms. (shop-cycle shop) MELISSA*** no I missed my O day...... O well better LUCK next month ! She came early!?? well girls I tryed to read but there was to much.. so I hope all is well and GOOD LUCK! I will be thinking of you's as always!... DON"T FORGET MArch 20th is my birthday my mother is in Daytona Beach *BRAT* hhehhe and hopefully she will babysit stevie when she gets back! we have a huge City party for ST.Pattys weekend which is my birthday weekend! Well stevie pulled the last I want to keep everyone up at night " crap! steve and I took his toyroom away and made it are bedroom and gave him are bedrrom upstairs to play which is right next to his bedroom. So now we can't hear him at night" now I know you are thinking what if something happend to him and we would not know..... well after a year of no sleep and he is playen games thats his problem......."okay deep down I want to be that way..but I can't I can hear him JUST NOT as CLOSE! well girls time to go hopefully we will talk soon again!
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Post by Diane on Mar 7, 2006 11:09:03 GMT -5
Lissa - I hope you get your computer fixed soon!
Chrissy - sorry AF is being a witch!
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Post by christinam on Mar 7, 2006 13:37:26 GMT -5
hey girls! i feel soooo much better today! almsot afraid to say that,hahaha! it is beautiful out i got some air went for a coffee, dread work tomorrow!!!!how is everyone doing?
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Post by Diane on Mar 8, 2006 14:48:15 GMT -5
Chrissy - glad you feel better. Where is everyone? ?? It is a yucky rainy day today!
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Post by nicolax2 on Mar 9, 2006 8:26:03 GMT -5
Hi girls, how you all doing? Nothing much happening here in England, it's cold, wet and miserable but that's nothing new for us! Lucas is really coming on now, he's getting so big and has started smiling over the last couple of days, he is such a good baby!
Hope you all have a good day x x x
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Post by aalissa on Mar 10, 2006 15:41:39 GMT -5
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Post by christinam on Mar 10, 2006 15:47:41 GMT -5
hi girls! lissa we miss you toooooo!!!!!! it is so spring like here, it is spoiling me!!!!!!say no to snow and rain!!!!!!love the spring feeling!!!!!i rearranged my classroom today for a little change and got a flash of sadness this is my last year teaching, got that june feeling of clean up and close the room! my class is 3 mths away from graduation and off to kindergarten! then i got that butterflies awesome feeling that i am going to be a mom when this year at school ends!
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Post by christinam on Mar 10, 2006 22:42:20 GMT -5
ps- girls gotta real good one, so the pyscho mil, calls me and says were your ears ringing i said no why...she said i was talking about you, lol...so i said about what, she said i am so jealous and envious that you will have a baby to hold and love in your home! is she crazy or what, she raised her kids instead of her being happy she is acting ridiculous!!!!!!had to share that, just amazing!!!!!!well off to bed hope you are all well and have a great weekend
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Post by aalissa on Mar 13, 2006 8:25:33 GMT -5
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Post by aalissa on Mar 13, 2006 8:28:38 GMT -5
NOT FOR YOU PREGGERS OF COURSE!! SlimQuick*
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Post by aalissa on Mar 13, 2006 8:42:31 GMT -5
8 more days till my birthday
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