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Post by christinam on May 19, 2006 16:32:42 GMT -5
well it wasnt exactly talking, i just was cooking and told her off and went about my business, she sat with a face on the whole day, looking for an argument, then she answered me back in an f....k you way and now i havent called her since! joe talks to her fine, but i am tired of being disrepected by her! she scanned our daughters picture the night we got it, and sent an email saying she cant wait to her her in her arms, to all the people on my email list from when i forward things and she sees my friends! so i was mad that my friends told me they saw my daughter before our announcments to them, and joe told her off about it as well, so she said to me well i did it, so deal with it, f...you! so i didnt look at her the rest of the day and i am not inviting her here again til she acts like a human in my home!
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Post by aalissa on May 19, 2006 20:29:00 GMT -5
GOOD FOR YOU GIRL@@ YOU HAVE TO TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT you some times!!!!And I would not be haven that IN MY HOUSE I'm veeeerrrrrrryyyyyyyyy proud of YOU
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Post by AwesomeMommy on May 20, 2006 5:14:04 GMT -5
Chrissy: That is just crazy. I cannot believe she would do or say something like that. I am glad that you stood up to her, no matter what you should not have to put up with things like that. You are to good of a person. If I were you I would keep all updates about Kira from her until everyone else knows, that way it prevents her from opening her big mouth again. Plus, there is nothing wrong with her finding out info last... even if it is a week after you tell everyone else. Jacque
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Post by christinam on May 20, 2006 12:57:16 GMT -5
thanks girls! i have had a stomach ache on and off thinking of how she spoke to me but i rememeber then i answered back so i feel better! and my daughter will see through her, how she treats me, her mom! she is in our face with everything, saying why didnt i know if she thinks she is welcome and and going to that she is mistaken and if she thinks dh will go to see her with my daughter and she wont see me she is mistaken! dh brother and his wfe havent talked to her in 8 years he is mad at how she treaated his wife!!!!!!she hasnt even seen his daughter ever! so i have to deal i think not!!!!!and did you tell other first, and its so insecure and crazy! girls thanks for listening i am glad i can come here and venrt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!and fathers day they think i am catering to them while i didnt even get a thank you! bull, god willingly i am taking ym dad and grandpa out for dinner and if they want dh he can go with them!
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Post by AwesomeMommy on May 23, 2006 6:22:24 GMT -5
Chrissy: You are right, Kira will KNOW how it is... kids can sense that type of thing. As you know with working with kids, they are such an EXCELLENT judge of character! --- Wow your MIL must be a total psycho if she is like that to both you and your SIL... does she not have anyone that she is nice too? Mikes mom LOVES mike's bother and his wife, but she is not very nice to us (well, most of the time) the thing is that WE are the good kids, Jason is a total ass.... oh well, to each his own, right?
Jacque
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Post by christinam on May 23, 2006 20:08:05 GMT -5
well girls, today we faught dh and i, mil witch from hell, calls him crying 2 weeks later over my telling her off, he comes home and starts with me, and left mad at me, when we had plans with friends in the city, i am soooo tired of this crap!!!!!!he said that i am mean to her, and she brought one friggin dinner in 14 years i know him and he threw that at me that i didnt thank her!!!give me a break, i cook and cater every darn holiday!!!!!and gifts come out of my pocket, i am a friggin teacher, think i make millions, my goodness.....i didnt deserve this today, mean time my parents are always helping us out, they even gave me a car thta was paid off to save us money becuase mine is too small for the baby, his family does shit! i am so sick over this and dont know what else to do, i am always wrong and hurt in this.......
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Post by AwesomeMommy on May 24, 2006 6:55:58 GMT -5
Chrissy: I am so sorry. That just sucks, and you do not need this now. As for your hubby, maybe you can try to write him a letter expressing how you feel. That way he can read it when you are not around and give it time to sink in before you two talk. You will be less likely to get in an argument or use raised voices, but at the same time you will be able to get your point across. I so wish I could make this better for you.
Jacque
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Post by christinam on May 24, 2006 7:34:27 GMT -5
thanks jacque! appreciate it i try emailing him and calling he is ignoring me, she has done this every time theres soemthing happy because she has been so miserable her whole life! and i am tired of taking this crap and dont want my daughter seeing any of this, i want this to stop and i have tried, i give in i give in, i am tired of being the door mat then the two of them will be fine with me..... how an you not stop this after 14 years! i can see if it was recent but this is crazy now. and they dont like me being close with my family that is not their business, and they hate that my family does alot for us, also not their business, my family has a very big heart, dh obviously out for their own self and feelings! no matter who it hurts..... she doesnt get along and hasnt talked to her other daughter in law or son in 8 years, and never saw their child. cause they got tired of this junk! well gotta go to work, thanks again, xoxox chrissy
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Post by aalissa on May 25, 2006 9:29:18 GMT -5
CHRISSY !!! ITS TIME TO SHIT OR GET OFF THE POT!! and I mean that in a loving WAY!!!
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Post by Diane on May 25, 2006 15:01:26 GMT -5
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Post by christinam on May 25, 2006 17:44:51 GMT -5
i agree! he came home today and sai dhe was sorry and he never sucks it up and appolizes i always give in.......but we had a rough week, so this does need to stop.......thanks girls! appreciate all the advice!
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Post by aalissa on May 26, 2006 8:18:05 GMT -5
I sure hOPE HE MEANS IT!!!! You can give all the flowers you want and you can be all romantic........ BUT WHEN he ain't got your back.. WHATS SEXY ABOUT THAT?? steve may never give me flowers or rub me wisper sweet nothings in my ear (which would be annoying BUT HE ALWAYS HAS MY BACK!! even with his family or mother I hope there will be peace soon!
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Post by AwesomeMommy on May 29, 2006 18:20:25 GMT -5
Chrissy: I am glad he apologized, that is great news... now I hope he sticks up for you more often, I agree completely with Aalissa's last post I could not have said it better myself!
Jacque
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Post by AwesomeMommy on Jun 14, 2006 12:10:34 GMT -5
So... how are things going? Much better, I hope!
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Post by christinam on Jun 26, 2006 21:58:42 GMT -5
she is still a looney! i havent heard from her in weeks, she calls dh at work, she has no respect for me!!!!and it is so hard to share my children with her knowing how she treats me no matter what i do, she emails me and dh saying she signs up on baby sites for coupons for herself why the heck wouldnt you be giving us them!!!!!!!
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