Need Advise on Move

[sexymamaof1]

Well I have a co-worker that has moved to Austin Texas to take a director's position at the University of Texas...... She's gonna need an assistant and according to the web, starting salary will be about ($2083-2500negotiable depending on qualification) and right now i make about (2208 before taxes). Steve is just starting a new business and that can easily be started in Texas. I would just hate to leave my family and it's such a long distance from them....... I'm so confused and I don't know what I want to do.... Steve and I have talked and he said that he'd go with me if I decided to go so now I just have to decide if it's worth it.... I SO WANT ANOTHER JOB!!!!! So what do you think???

[aalissa]

Well for one I'm a little hurt that I'm finding out this way! I thought we where TIGHT' **sigh** but I'll get over it!!

what do u want?? its hard to make a choice!!! But only you can" does it feel right to you in your heart and soul?? personaly it did not feel right to me to move to NC... I was not 100% sure in the first place and thats when I said NO'...." we would have been moving fo the wrong reason' and that was not far to our family (meaning me and steve and stevie) I was not moving to make someone else happy... and now they are going to be foster parents so I'm glad we did not move! look what we have now You really have to think and listen to your heart and what the lord is tryen to tell YOU"S!!

[AwesomeMommy]

I wish I could tell you the "right" thing to do. Just know this, God will never give you more then you can handel.... so if He thinks it is time for a move and in your heart you feel it is the right thing to do then I would go for it!

Jacque

[sexymamaof1]

Thanks ladies.........


Awwwwwwwwwww....... Missy.. I'm sooooo sorry..... We are tighter than that...... I have just had a lot on my mind lately and I really thought we had talked about this before.... My bad girlie........... My mind is a million miles away

I'm just waiting to find out how much the job will offer?? I really think i need a change of scenery...... I'm just a little hesistant about leaving my family... I"m a big baby and I don't know what i'll do without all my support... I guess I really just need to grow up and do it the best i can.... I'll probably find out more about thej ob in July cuz the lady would start her job July 1.....

[aalissa]

Like I said ITS VERY HARD TO make a choice in that area!! BUT YOU ARE right your a mother and Wife(in a way :}) and you have to make grown up choices.....

the only thing I can tell you is this: steve and I have made choices based on other peoples lives and then they have moved away on US.... so Don't make Your mind up on family cause if the shoe was on the other foot THEY would probably leave too?? but Who knows? all I know is I will never move again to make some one else happy or to move closer to them... when in the end THEY LIVE there lives around themselfs... thats why we did not move NC cause we did that once moved from FL to MI and then family Moves TO FL and NC...... GET ME!!!!!!!!!

thats okay" DON"T LET IT HAPPEN AGAIN I'm here for yea torie even through we live so far away! YOUR MY GIRL!! DON"T EVER HESSATATE TO CALL ME!!!!!!!!! EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[sexymamaof1]

Thanks girlie......... That really did make a lot of sense...... I honestly think that if I get offered the job and it's at least 30,000 then i'll take it..... Steve and I also talked about us not being married and going half way across the US like that and I think if we were to move then we'll get married first.... and no it won't be because of that... We did discuss that and both said if we did then we know we'd be ready so i'm just looking forward to what comes out of this.......

[aalissa]

Good I'm glad you guys are talking about all of it!! whatever you do I'm with you either way!!