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Post by aalissa on Apr 14, 2006 20:04:00 GMT -5
Well I'm an Italian girl like my grampapa' and we don't put up with much from people! But sometimes and nice smart out snippy remark is enough to put someone in there place and in this world sometimes (most of the time) you have to be a bitch but really its being tough and not letting anyone walk all over you and your feelings! Thing is this women is a little wacko ' and maybe even being nice but in a snikery way....' You are a great person and so much fun! the women needs to get a grip!!
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Post by chrissy on Apr 14, 2006 20:05:41 GMT -5
thanks lissa! we faught all night over the holidays, and i cant win!!!!!!!but true,i have to just lay it out and shut her up!!!!!
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Post by aalissa on Apr 15, 2006 19:34:02 GMT -5
I've done alot of thinking about your MIL problem.... you ever think maybe she is tryen to get you too leave.... so she can have her son back (in HER MIND)...? girlfriend your going to need it You talk to melissa right?? how come she is never on anymore? well have a good easter KEEP SANE@ Hi diane, mel, drew'
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Post by chrissy on Apr 16, 2006 0:45:25 GMT -5
lissa- you are right i have thought that, but it is 14 years we are together she needs to get a grip and i have to tell you today was so super romantic, we went for breakfast, fooled around,lol.....dh brought me a big swing to match our yard set he said me and the baby can swing, it was cute then he brought a bunch of summer clothes for the baby, now all i need to do is deal with the crazy tomorrow which i have to tell you i have a stomach ache worry about her crap constantly! but i am ready! i talk to melissa, she is doing good, she says she doesnt come on much but does pop in when she can.......anyway everyone have a happy healthy easter!!!!!!be back soon, love to all xoxoxo chrissy
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Post by chrissy on Apr 16, 2006 0:45:59 GMT -5
ps- i am italian to and know where ya coming from lol
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Post by aalissa on Apr 17, 2006 7:22:50 GMT -5
sometimes my mouth has a brain all its own la la la .... la la la.... this place is dead... la la la.... talking to myself...la la la....
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Post by aalissa on Apr 17, 2006 7:23:46 GMT -5
O I took a HPT Sunday am... BFN' so it was A/F just very LIGHT one I geuss? anyways ready to move on
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Post by chrissy on Apr 17, 2006 11:42:45 GMT -5
lissa-how r ya? i know you and need to make a thread for the two of us,lol......miss you other girlies too!!! easter was good, i answered back the crazy inlaws as they are all starting with me to take father son traditions and use dh baptismal outfit, it it were dh saying it i do it, he could care less, and told them to quit it! then he said he is ready to make our own holidays and traditions!!thanks God!!!!!!!!!!well be back in in bit xoxox chrissy
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Post by aalissa on Apr 17, 2006 14:22:30 GMT -5
Is it really a BIG deal to you either way? or is it just the fact on how they are acting about it that pisses you off? I used my brothers outfit It was so cute and nice to see it on him! I know what u are saying and make your own but some times its nice too throw a few family traditions in there What does you mom say about all this crap with your MIL? Yes I know ! Please don't get mad at me, but I can't help but think that some of these ladys act as though now they got pregnant they don't have to be here for the rest of us....? And I sure hope its not like that cause after all WE where all here when you ladys where TTC too! so it sure would be nice if you ladys came on here more! IT NEVER stopped you before?? okay I said what I have been feeling'.... Chrissy how are you feeling? still feeling yucky sometimes? I'm good my boobs still hurt and I started cryen earlyer for no reason...? I had to go in the bathroom for a sec to control myself... and so stevie would'nt ask me whats wrong. cause I would have said "I don't no' I'm hungry seems like all day? my stromache talks very loud when I am. I'm all over the place with my moods? Just messed up hormones from A/F girly!
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Post by christinam on Apr 17, 2006 14:49:26 GMT -5
lissa i totally want father son mother daughter everything traditions but it is the point that hubby should want it and not them harrassing us to do what they say and they never bother dh 's brother and wife i always get the crap thats what sucks!!!!! well be back in a bit
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Post by aalissa on Apr 17, 2006 19:48:46 GMT -5
I got cha' well try not to let them GET u all WOUND for sound!! take a deep breath before seeing them I have to when I see steve's side.... tough I know! has hubby told them to JUST SHUT UP already?? it is his family? thats whats going on with the whole NC move HIS family are the one's PUSHING us to move... saying its better there blah blah' well maybe WE SHOULD decide that on are own! well just popped in for a moment' having a fight with hubby!! UGHHHH" sometimes I wonder what it would be like if I never got with him! He just NEEDS TO GROW UP@ steve is the only man I dated YOUNGER than me! and I can see why some women date older MEN@ AT least YOUR hubby KNOWS how to be romantic to you! Shit I don't think steve even know show to spell the word last night he huffed and puffed in bed when I was tryen to sleep....cause he wanted some ass' I knew that but any man that has to act like that to get ass....HA SORRY' what are we 10..... he did not even try to touch me exxx.. he just huffed' lets just say we did.." I FAKED IT" to get it to stop! we are fighting about that and same shit I have been complaining about for a year now! wait "wait! till your child comes!! MEN its soooooo much easyer for them not to come home for dinner' or to leave or to go out in the garage.....but WHEN we try to go get a hair cut, tanners exxx. we have to worry about the child or who is going to watch him' all I'm saying is things are not = ! I'm not a single mother nor did I have stevie all by myself!! BUT GIRL I FEEL LIKE A SINGLE MOTHER!! and I think stevie feels like that too' he says just you and me mom just you and me..... sucks yea know! okay enough of my lonely sad pathetic life' PLEASE" PLEASE LET FIN.AIDE SAY YES@@ I need this MORE THAN ANYTHING RIGHT NOW@
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Post by chrissy on Apr 17, 2006 21:18:55 GMT -5
i gotcha and thanks for the advice!!!!!!true i laugh them off now, i am the mother!!!!!!lol....anyway i hope the fin.aide goes through for you...that would be great!!!!!!!i emailed you my no.....we just went for dinner and stuff, and funny thing we have 2 dogs and a bunny and baby on the way, i fell in love with this cat in the pet store and dh put an application in to adopt him for me! lol......i am nuts and take on everything but if you saw him what a beauty!!!!!white long haired with blue eyes, but he is deaf, i feel so bad for him, thats why i want him, anyway i am going to watch tv......be back later, xoxox chrissy
ps- queezy moments here and there, but sucks a/f probably showed for you, i hate when it is light and a tease!!!!!
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Post by aalissa on Apr 18, 2006 7:38:17 GMT -5
OOOO CHRISSY I HAVE BEEN Looken for an all white cat with blue EYES they are all born DEAF, its one of the traits with those kind fo cats! How sweeeeeet of him! a bunny too girl you are nuts Hey I like being busy everyday (well in my house) its my JOB' if its not busy I feel soooo bored and worthless' I know I'm a well steve and I did some talken till 1:00am about alot of things' its funny how shit comes out over something STUPID..... I think steve and I have been keeping some stuff in and it all needed to come out...in front of stevie WAS not a good thing BUT we are not perfect! We still ARE not HUNDRED % sure if we are staying or leaving but he is with me on NEEDING to decide! its so much on us to be pulled in several different directions! Then my MIL called this weekend and ask if stevie can coem to NC and visit in July? We would have to meant them in Ohio and drop him off' thing is stevie is SOOOO hard to deal with when he comes back home, he is still to young to understand WHY they moved and he has such an attitude when he returns, he does not sleep exx. because he is sad (thats what I think ) steve don't know if we should YET WE WOULD REALLY ENJOY the week off!!! What do we do? Life is soooo hard can I go back 10 years IT WAS EASYER THEN
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Post by aalissa on Apr 18, 2006 7:42:51 GMT -5
i emailed you my no..... ps- queezy moments here and there, but sucks a/f probably showed for you, i hate when it is light and a tease!!!!! Okay you lost me? ^ what? emailed me your no? YES because it gets you thinking that is poss you are still pregnant...UGHHH" but I KNOW IT WAS A LIGHT period and thats all.. I started thinking I have been on SlimQuick* for 5 weeks now' maybe its that? does have alot of Vits in it.... but my last period was not like that and i was taking Slimquick* who knows girly......let me ask my cervix and get back to you
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Post by Diane on Apr 18, 2006 8:12:14 GMT -5
Chrissy - that was sweet of DH to get you a swing! Lissa - If stevie has problems when he gets back from NC I would say no on him going, Sorry you think people aren't around as much. I know for me, it isnt' that I am pg so I don't post, it is the weather and being busy. weekends I hardly ever post seems like it is a great day so you want to be outside then the storms keep rolling thru I just turn the computer off and move on. The weather in the last month is Chrissy - me and my MIL got into this weekend also. I think she is stupid. My friend and I keep saying why would you want to tick us off, if you were nice probably would see you more. seems like our fights are always away from DH, so now I try to get away from her until DH is around. Like won't answer the phone when it is her on caller ID I sale Avon also, I can't believe she would do that. Maybe that is why I don't sale much I don't try to intrude in others life. I have the if you buy you buy, if you don't you don't attitude!
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