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Post by christinam on Dec 8, 2005 9:13:00 GMT -5
hi girls just checking in, hope everyoneis well! mel how are ya feeling? drew and lissa miss ya!!!!diane it is going to happent for you, i am sorry it didnt this month, but your in our prayers!!!!!all is well here, i have off today the heat was broke in our classroom, so it is being fixed, no complaints here i got to sleep in,lol......as for any baby news not yet, but i did start registering a bit for some stuff we like that is going to be discontiued soon, other then that just trying to christmas shop and on dec 19th i turn 30!!!!!!!!joe has something up his sleeve he laughs when i mention what are we doing, and my parents said you and joe are going to dinner and we are bringing cake over, i have a feeling they are planning a party, well off for my am coffee, decaf and i believe it wakes me up,hahahaha, chrissy
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Post by Melissa on Dec 8, 2005 9:16:04 GMT -5
Diane - Don't give up hope. I am so sorry you had a rough day yesterday. You have to rest assured that God has a plan for all of us and we will get pg in HIS time. Not ours. I know, it's easier said than done but you can't give up hope. I'm glad you know we are here for you and you can vent anytime. What I found difficult to keep in perspective when we first started TTC is that babies are a true miracle. I mean we only have so long for the sperm to fertalize the egg, and then hopefully it will implant, then we hope that nothing goes wrong once we do get that BFP. Although I know my little guy is a blessing it was hard to understand how much of a miracle he actually was because we conceived him without any trouble at all. I guess sometimes you take your blessings for granted. What is your next step if no BFP this cycle?
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Post by Melissa on Dec 8, 2005 9:19:58 GMT -5
Hey Chrissy! We must have posted at the same time. All is good here. Just tired, itchy skin, and "jimmy legs". The m/s has subisded. Oh but I am SO emotional! I cry over the drop of a hat lately. I was on my way home from school Monday and heard this song on the radio ... I was crying so hard I had to change the station just so I could drive. lol How's the monster-in-law doing?
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Post by Diane on Dec 8, 2005 10:01:03 GMT -5
thanks girls. I hope to get pg soon, my 2 year TTC mark is coming shortly and that on top of the holidays and not holding your baby like you should, then the BFN was just to much to handle at the same time.
Chrissy - baby registering is fun! enjoy it! I turned 30 in October! Melissa - funny I am not pg and I am emotional!
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Post by Melissa on Dec 8, 2005 10:41:58 GMT -5
Diane - Get as emotional as you want! It is ok to do so. That is a lot to think about. Especially when you know your timing is right and it's still not happening. Just know we are all here for you. BTW - I heard a REALLY sad song on the radio the other night. I was crying so hard I had to change the station just so I could drive. lol
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Post by Diane on Dec 8, 2005 11:04:28 GMT -5
I remember that symptom when pg with Jacob. I used to cry to commercials!
thanks, it helps to let it out, but I think it would be easier if the new cycle would just start, but with trying to time IUI after Christmas I have to delay AF until Monday, so that isn't helping.
also getting Christmas cards with a toddler and a new baby was what set me off.
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Post by christina on Dec 9, 2005 9:06:53 GMT -5
hi girls! so its a miserable snowy day and my school district is closed!yahooooooo! i am home snuggley, and going out to breakfast with my parents. joe had to go in, unfortunately he works 1 hr and half from our house so with traffic and this weather it will take him about 2 or 3 hrs, there and back. so the worry sets in til he calls and tells me he is ok. other then that joe and i went last night and added some more stuff, i have to ask you all this, i cant help to to feel guilty wondering this, although i am more then happy, excited ready to get our baby, i still have that wonder why i never concieved after miscarrying last nov. My hubby said it is normal and once i hold our baby that will disappear.......and i was worried about me loving our baby soooo much and this baby not bonding with me, so i was wondering your thoughts on my breastfeeding? any input would be super! the mil hasnt called me, she is soooo busy decorating like a looney.......and mad that we registered and didnt take her, she is a cookcooh, but we are happy so thats all that matters......tomorrow we are taking my brother to mahattan to see the radio christmas show, with the rockettes, joe and i made that his christmas present, we are excited.......other then that i will be back later, hope you are all well, yes 1 week and a few days and i am 30....i dont believe it, i wonder where the time went and i dont look it,lol...i look 17 if you met me i am so petite and babyish looking,hahahaha, i hope i feel that way when i am 80!!!!!!love ya girls chrissy
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Post by aalissa on Dec 9, 2005 10:06:55 GMT -5
WOW you are going to be 30 whats going through your head right now.....? I'm 25 and scared to turn 30 not that its old just I geuss a mark in your life...I don't look 25 chrissy I'm very short as you know...and I get carded all the time because they don't believe it. But mainly I hate when kids look and stare at me I'm sorry but I stick my toung out at them...brats!! Listen girls teach your kids not to stare at people its RUDE!
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Post by aalissa on Dec 9, 2005 10:08:23 GMT -5
Chrissy you are getting what we got last night...i just got done digging out"...but who wants a green x-mas? I don't
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Post by christina on Dec 9, 2005 11:00:34 GMT -5
funny! well i am excited i feel 30 is ok, cause i am turnign 30 and becoming a mom finally,lol....but on another note i am sad about it, like ok i have to leave my 20's behind!!!!!!!crazy........now the weather just turned to rain and roads are fine, so a day without pay for nothing,lol......well not nothing relaxing wise but pay wise!!!!!
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Post by Drew on Dec 9, 2005 17:12:39 GMT -5
Hey gals!!! Haven't been on in awhil, just tryin to get ready for Christmas. Just when I think it's all done, something comes up!!
Mel, get used to the emotions, appearently they stick around your whole pg!! That sad book I read the other day........well, lets just say I promised never to read it again while pg. I cried so much I felt sick!!!
Lissa, I get the same thing, being carded. Before I got pg when I smoked, and occasionally drank, I never could buy either without being asked! Last year on my 26 b-day we went into the liquor store and they REFUSED to sell me anything!! Dh had to buy it, but did they ask him....? Then this summer about a week before we went on holidays I went to change the address on my liscence and they have this new thing where they give you a temp. liscence with no photo till they mail you your new one. Well, it hadn't come before we left so I had to go with this temp thing, and while we were in B.C. my sis and I went in to get some drinks and smokes and of course I get carded and have no picture id. My little sister buys my stuff for me!!! Ugghh!! I guess we'll love it when we are older though....at least thats what everyone keeps telling me!
Chrissy, I've heard of the breast feeding thing. So, do you have to take lactation meds? I seen it on the learning channel or something....you take the meds and start pumping to stimulate the glands, then you should be ready when baby comes? I think it's a great idea, it would make you feel that much closer to your baby!! You know what? I would just go with your gut feeling on that, cause there's always gonna be someone with an opinion on that, and you should just do what you feel is right for you.
Diane, please don't give up!! I was ttc for 41/2 years before getting pg. I know how much it hurts. It can happen and will happen for you.
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Post by Diane on Dec 10, 2005 9:06:48 GMT -5
Thanks Drew. Well, AF arrived today, so my IUI's are ruined - dang her!
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Post by Drew on Dec 10, 2005 13:45:05 GMT -5
;)Diane so what happens now? Do they have a back-up plan?
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Post by Diane on Dec 10, 2005 15:34:58 GMT -5
Nope, I will just have to skip this month - IUI anyway, but hopefully they will still let me take the meds so I have a little chance! CD 15 is Christmas Eve and by the time they open on Tuesday the 27th, it will be cd 18, and should O by then! So hoping to conceive a Christmas miracle!
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Post by nicolax2 on Dec 12, 2005 4:25:08 GMT -5
Hi ladies, sorry I haven't been on for a couple of days just been busy! Well I have just had a horrible weekend. It started out really well as we were babysitting my nephew on Saturday night (he stayed the night with us) to give my sister a break. He is only 6 months old and such a pleasure to have, I hope this baby is half as good as he is!! Anyway when he went home yesterday I had plans of a lazy afternoon (DH had done all the washing and cleaning) and a bit of pampering for myself but the outlaws decided to invite themselves round for something to eat! You know how it is when people don't get the hint and end up staying for hours on end!! Anyway they finally left about 6.30pm, I had just got Leon in the bath when DH's nana phoned (about 7pm) asking me to go round as his grandad wasn't well (one of the disadvantages of being a nurse). Anyway me and DH ended up at the hospital with them until about 1am this morning!!!!! Ok I've finished complaining!!!!!
Mel- hope your ok and feeling well. I have also been very emotional during this pregnancy and probably quite difficult to live with!!LOL
Lissa - Hi girly how you doing? I'm going to attempt to e-mail you some pics this afternoon so wish me luck!
Diane - I'm soooo sorry about your BFN, don't give up hope this can only be God's plan for the time being, I'm sure he has wonderful things planned out for your future which will include children x x x
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